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Why We Procrastinate And How To Break The Cycle For Good

Nov 21, 2025

Most people think procrastination is a productivity problem.

It’s not.

Procrastination is a personal empowerment problem.
It’s a leadership problem.
It’s a clarity problem.
And for growth-minded leaders, it’s often the hidden barrier keeping you from the results you say you want.

Here’s the truth:

You will never outperform the level of thinking you bring to your life, your leadership, or your business.

And procrastination is one of the clearest signals that our thinking, our identity, beliefs, emotions, and alignment has slipped out of sync with the results we’re trying to create.

Today, we’re diving into the psychology, the science, and the strategic leadership behind procrastination and how to reclaim our power so we can move from delay…to direction.

Let’s get to work.

The Leadership Cost of Delay

Procrastination isn’t harmless.

It erodes clarity.
It steals confidence.
It damages credibility.
It slows momentum.
It creates friction across your team and culture.

But at its core, procrastination is avoidance: avoiding discomfort, judgment, uncertainty, or the emotional cost of doing the work.

High-performing leaders don’t procrastinate because they’re lazy.
They procrastinate because they’re out of alignment.

Here’s what I’ve learned coaching leaders for nearly three decades:

Procrastination shows up loudest when your vision is unclear, your strategy is fuzzy, or your ownership is inconsistent.

In other words...it’s a signal that something is misaligned inside you or inside your business.
And you will never fix procrastination at the productivity level.
You fix it at the identity, clarity, and alignment level.

 

The Behavioral Science Behind Why We Wait

People don’t procrastinate because they “don’t have time.”
If it mattered, we’d make time.

What’s actually happening is deeper and behavioral science proves it.

1. Loss Aversion

Our brain hates loss more than it values gain.
Starting something important triggers the fear of failing...a “loss” our brain wants to avoid.

So we delay.

2. Present Bias

We overvalue what feels good now and undervalue what’s important long term.
Comfort wins over growth unless you train your mind differently.

3. Cognitive Overload

Too many tasks, too many decisions, too much noise.
When everything feels urgent, nothing gets done.

4. Emotional Avoidance

Procrastination is often emotional, not logical.
We delay because the task triggers discomfort, uncertainty, fear, incompetence, responsibility, judgment.

5. Identity-Level Conflict

We subconsciously ask:

  • “What if I’m not good enough?”

  • “What if I fail?”

  • “What if I succeed and can’t sustain it?”

As Maxwell says, “You cannot climb beyond the limitations of your own thinking.”

As Napoleon Hill teaches, “Fear is a state of mind and you have the power to control your mind or let your mind control you.”

And as Cialdini shows us, we always remain consistent with the identity we believe is true.
If your identity hasn’t caught up with your goals, procrastination fills the gap.

 

The Three Faces of Procrastination

Leaders don’t procrastinate for the same reasons.
In my coaching work, I see three dominant types:

1. Fear-Based Procrastination

This is the most common.

Fear of:

  • Failure

  • Success

  • Judgment

  • Being seen

  • Not being enough

  • Outgrowing your current circle

  • Being responsible for more

Fear disguises itself as “I need more research,” “I’m not ready,” or “Let me get through this busy season.”

2. Perfectionism-Based Procrastination

This is performance anxiety in disguise.

“If I can’t do it perfectly, I’ll wait until I can.”

Except “perfect” never comes.

And in the meantime, opportunity passes, momentum dies, and your confidence erodes.

3. Overwhelm-Based Procrastination

This happens when:

  • The direction isn’t clear

  • The steps are undefined

  • The task feels too big

  • The priorities aren’t aligned to purpose

Overwhelm is a leadership issue, not a calendar issue.

When leaders lack structure, simplicity, and strategic clarity they default to avoidance.

 

The Pippin Method™: Procrastination Is Misalignment

One of the most powerful realizations I teach leaders is this:

Procrastination is not the problem.
Procrastination is the symptom.

And when you run it through the four pillars of The Pippin Method™, the root cause becomes clear.

Let’s break it down.

1. Leadership Pillar: Direction, Strategy, Ownership

If you procrastinate, you are likely missing:

  • Clear direction

  • A simple strategy

  • Ownership over the next step

When leadership is unclear, procrastination is predictable.

2. Brand Pillar: Product, Marketing, Sales

Leaders procrastinate here because:

  • They haven’t clarified their message

  • The task doesn’t feel aligned to purpose

  • They’re doing activities instead of strategy

Procrastination protects you from doing the wrong things, but it also stops you from doing the right things.

3. Culture Pillar: Team, Operations, Technology

Procrastination shows up when:

  • Delegation is unclear

  • Communication is inconsistent

  • Systems create friction

  • Technology is outdated or disorganized

Your team can’t move when you don’t move.

And the culture becomes whatever you tolerate.

4. Financial Performance Pillar: P&L, Cashflow, Capital

You procrastinate on financial decisions when:

  • You don’t understand the numbers

  • You avoid the numbers

  • You fear the numbers

  • You’ve never been shown how to think financially

Most leaders don’t fear the spreadsheet; they fear what the spreadsheet reveals.

 

The Real Root: It’s Not About Time. It’s About Identity

Procrastination is psychological, emotional, and identity-based.

It’s the mind saying:
“I don’t believe I’m the type of person who takes this action… yet.”

Here’s the shift:

Identity drives beliefs.
Beliefs drive behavior.
Behavior drives results.

Procrastination happens when your identity hasn’t risen to the level of the results you desire.

This is why coaching is so transformative.  It raises identity first, which changes everything else.

 

The Empowered Shift: How to Break the Cycle

Leaders don’t rise by eliminating procrastination.
They rise by replacing it with alignment and action.

Here’s the framework I recommend:

1. Clarify the Outcome (Direction)

What exactly are you trying to accomplish?
Ambiguity is the enemy of action.

2. Simplify the Plan (Strategy)

Break the task into the next right step. Not the whole project.

Momentum begins at the micro-level.

3. Own the Next Step (Ownership)

Ask yourself:
“What is the one action that moves this forward today?”

Not this week.
Today.

4. Remove the Friction (Ops + Technology)

Procrastination often comes from unnecessary friction:

  • Disorganized tools

  • Unclear systems

  • Outdated processes

  • Too many steps

Simplify to accelerate.

5. Align Your Actions With Identity (Behavioral Science)

Use Cialdini’s Consistency Principle:
Make a small commitment → follow through → reinforce identity → build momentum.

Success is built one micro-win at a time.

6. Reframe the Emotion (Psychology)

Label the emotion behind your avoidance:

  • Fear

  • Doubt

  • Shame

  • Uncertainty

  • Boredom

Once you name it, you neutralize its power.

7. Build a System of Accountability (Leadership Science)

Without accountability, procrastination expands to fill the space.

With accountability, goals compress into action.

 

The Leadership Ripple Effect: Procrastination Is Contagious

Leaders set culture.
Culture sets behavior.
Behavior sets results.

When you procrastinate:

  • Decisions slow

  • Teams stall

  • Priorities blur

  • Morale drops

  • Execution suffers

When you move...the organization moves.

When you grow...the organization grows.

When you take ownership...the team follows.

 

Reflection Questions for Growth-Minded Leaders

Use these for journaling or your next team development session.

  1. Where in my life do I procrastinate the most and what emotion drives it?

  2. What part of my identity is not aligned with the outcome I want?

  3. What tasks drain my energy because they lack clarity?

  4. What have I been avoiding that would create the biggest breakthrough if I addressed it?

  5. Which of the three procrastination types shows up most for me: fear, perfectionism, overwhelm?

  6. What conversations or decisions am I delaying that would move the business forward?

  7. If I acted today like the leader I want to become, what would I do differently?

  8. What system or process needs to be simplified to reduce friction?

  9. What is the cost of my procrastination to the business?

  10. What is one commitment I can make today aligned with the identity I want to live into?

  11. Who can I bring into my life to hold me accountable?

  12. What am I pretending not to know about my own behavior?

Action Steps to Build Empowered Momentum

Here are seven steps you can implement today:

  1. Define the outcome clearly.

  2. Break the task into a 10-minute micro-step.

  3. Eliminate distractions for 30 minutes.

  4. Move the uncomfortable task to the top of your day.

  5. Create a public or shared commitment.

  6. Automate or delegate anything that creates recurring friction.

  7. Celebrate small wins to reinforce identity.

Small actions compound.
Small alignments become transformation.
Small decisions become destiny.

 

The Empowerment Challenge

For the next seven days:
Choose ONE meaningful action you’ve been procrastinating on and take a single step every day.

Not perfect.
Not massive.
Just forward.

Because nothing changes until you do.

Growth requires movement.
Leadership requires ownership.
Empowerment requires action.

This week reclaim your power!

If you’re tired of procrastinating on the things that actually matter most, it’s not because you lack discipline.
It’s because you lack alignment, clarity, and a system that pulls you forward.

That’s what coaching does.

It elevates your thinking.
It aligns your actions.
It accelerates your results.

If you’re ready to step into the next level of your leadership and eliminate procrastination at the identity level...I’d love to help you get there.

Let’s talk.

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